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It's A Curvy Thing

Welcome to the Ivory & Main blog.  Intended for the Curvy Bride, This blog will serve as a positive resource to help our fellow curvy beauties navigate the sometimes rocky waters of Bridal gown shopping.  We will also post some fun and interesting interviews and insight, along with stories from other brides like yourself,  you have options.  Looking and feeling beautiful isn't about size, it's a mindset.  

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The Bride who Beamed (and Boogied!)


Three women smile in a bridal shop, one holding a sign saying "I popped the champagne at Ivory & Main." Elegant dresses in the background.

She is the moment


Nothing could burst Val & Kenny’s “couple bubble” as they hit their golden hour stride with a  Brockhampton first dance—slightly unexpected, fully theirs. Because as our groom puts it, “laughter cuts through the hard times.”


So we already knew our latest Dream Dress Giveaway bride would be fun, but we didn’t anticipate the beaming ray of excitement and gratitude we’d meet in Valerie.

The Long Game


Valerie is the kind of person you understand best through the people who have been around her the longest.


Her friendships go all the way back—like, we met when we were four back—and they never thinned out or turned into the kind you have to “catch up” with. They’ve stayed close, present, and part of each other’s everyday lives in a way that feels continuous. No rotating cast, no seasonal drop-offs—just the real thing, still intact.


She’s the throughline in all of it—the one who remembers what’s going on, checks in without making it a production, and makes sure no one slips through the cracks. It’s not something she performs; it’s just how she moves.

A Heart for Service


That same instinct carries into everything else.


The work she chose—social work and public policy—puts her exactly where that kind of attentiveness matters.


At home, it plays out in quieter ways. When her fiancé gets back from work, she’s already coming downstairs with their cat, Beans, meeting him at the door. The day resets there, and the rest of the night follows—talking through it, decompressing, settling back into each other.


It’s not some extravagant secret to a long lasting relationship, It’s better–it works.Because Their relationship didn’t arrive fully formed.


Communication took effort, so they put it in. Therapy became part of how they built things—something they chose early enough to matter. Over time, that turned into something steady. They speak clearly, they understand each other, and nothing important gets buried.


They’re on the same team—and they play like it. Losses get shared, wins do too, and there’s a level of trust between them that runs deeper than preference—they know each other well enough to step in for the other and get it right.


The pair’s ying & yang is part of it. She’s more open, more curious, more willing to step into the unfamiliar, and it’s pulled him along in ways he’s the first to admit he wouldn’t have chosen on his own. People gravitate toward her easily. It makes sense when you see it.


They’re genuinely fun together—quick with each other, a little chaotic in the best way, able to move from real conversations into something lighter without forcing it. That “couple bubble” isn’t separate from the relationship; it’s the reason it holds.


You see it in the way they interact, and you saw it in the first dance—a track by the (now disbanded) Brockhampton, a funky, alternative hip-hop collective formed via a Kanye West message board, known for taking their groove seriously but not themselves.


Tells you more than any John Legend ballad or Etta James standard could.

Val’s Vision, Our Execution 


When Valerie stepped into her appointment, it never felt like she was searching for a new version of herself.


She already had a clear idea of her vibe, so since


She’s the one making sure everything else is taken care of, that everyone else is seen, that nothing gets missed, we wanted to ensure the focus stayed Val and that she never felt rushed in her deliberations.

The dress echoed the features we went over—a modern romantic with quiet structure. The scoop neckline and softly supported bodice giving way to a full A-line skirt that moves easily, while the floral texture—a modern, larger floral motiff—caught the light without relying on sparkle. It held, flattered, and moved with her, so she could stay fully present in it.


And when she found it, It felt like the mirror finally caught up to the way she pictured herself walking down the aisle and the elation was palpable!

With her dress steamed and snatched, she knew—as the boy band from San Marcos would say—it was time to let her hair down and grow up like a real-ass bride.


Watch the full moment unfold on our YouTube—and see the dress, the movement, and the celebration where you can almost hear the music and laughter still hanging in the air.


 
 
 

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